When it comes
to getting your kids to fall in love with reading, you’ve got to be
proactive. Grab that young bull by the horns and get him reading by any
means necessary! Make it fun, of course, but make it work as well.
Here's how to get you started
- and create a household full of lifelong readers.
1. Be a reading role model.
You are your child’s
hero. He wants to emulate you in every way possible. So when your child
sees you reading at home, he is that much more likely to pick up the
habit himself. In this regard, turning your child into a great reader
is as easy as catching up on all your favorite books.
2. Spend more time at the
bookstore. Make a weekly sojourn to your favorite
bookstore. And don’t just get in and get out -- take your time. Make a
Saturday morning event out of it. The major chain bookstores encourage
loitering. Head to your local bookstore, plan to buy the kids some
snacks, and spend time poring through the thousands of books and
magazines in the store. It’s a simple, powerful bonding experience and
one that promotes a love of reading to boot!
3. Use books with strong
visuals. Children, especially boys, respond to stories
with strong visual elements! Compelling pictures make them want to know
more about the words that accompany the images.
4. Read to your child every
day. The most obvious point is also the most powerful.
Reading to a child is the single most effective way to build a love of
books. Set aside time to read with your kids. Make it a regular
occurrence at a given time every day. It’s good for you and even better
for them! Your "reading ritual" will anchor the experience with the
emotion of love. It’s the best gift you can give your child.
5. Keep TV watching to a
minimum. Another seemingly obvious point, but
television watching is a passive exercise that does little to help build
a child’s reading skills. Click off the TV and grab a book. Then, head
for the couch with your child!
6. Move from the book to
the real world. If you read a book about dinosaurs, why
not accompany it with a trip down to your local natural history museum?
The more you make reading “come alive,” the more your child will hunger
for more.
7. Connect reading with the
things they love. If your child loves baseball or
dance, then get them books about baseball and dance. Non-fiction books
are just as good as fictional stories when it comes to building a
lifelong love of reading.
8. Sing a song … act it
out. Kids (especially boys) acquire knowledge more
effectively when stimulated by music and movement. So sing a song when
you read. Act out the stories. Get up and do a dance. Heck, it’s in
the privacy of your own home – so go nuts and enrich your child!
9. Keep books in your car.
Turn your minivan into a bookmobile. Unhook the
portable DVD player and fill the back seat up with a selection of your
child’s favorite books.
10. Reading: It’s not just
for bedtime anymore! You read to your child every night
before he goes to bed. Good for you! Begin by taking an hour on a
weekend. Then gradually make more “regular” times every day that focus
on reading. After breakfast? Before dinner? Those work!
Above all else, enjoy the time you spend reading with your child. These
are among the most precious and special moments you will ever share
together. This is the stuff memories are made of!
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