Dear Aunt Noor,

I need your help and support. I know my problem has no solution but at least I can talk to someone who I trust. I got married four years ago and I live at my parents’ house. My mother and my wife make me crazy. Every day they have a new argument and I don’t know whose side to stand on. I love my wife but I still have to obey my mother. What shall I do? My financial situation is also bad so I can’t rent a house is that is your advice.

Hisham

Dear Hisham,

I agree with you that your problem is difficult but relax. There is no problem that doesn’t have a solution. My first advice to you and your wife is to be patient with your mother. Show her respect and love even if she treats you wrong. You should treat her with wisdom and try to satisfy her as much as you can. Talk with your wife and let her understand that if you satisfy your mother, God would help you in all your life aspects. Also, try for example to buy your mother a gift and let your wife give it to her as if it is a gift from her. At the same time, whenever you sit with your wife, thank her about the effort she is doing to satisfy your mother and remind her that her children would learn from her and in the future she would be a mother-in-law as well. Your problem needs time to be solved. Patience, wisdom and respect are the keys to solve your problem. Wish you all the best Hisham.

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